Archive - Please Kink Responsibly

When the Ego Gets in the Way

Even with enthusiastic consent, things can still get weird.

Jun 18 •

April 2025

... Because Spring

I never could get the hang of spring

Apr 30 •

Polycomplexity & The Diversity of Love

6 arbitrary observations on polyamory after a couple of decades of successes and fuck-ups.

Apr 23 •

Protecting Our Energy

It all comes down to the right question

Apr 16 •

That First Gray Hair (No, the OTHER Kind)

Reflections on the privilege of aging

Apr 9 •

Empowerment: Knowing Ourselves

It’s good to be back, everyone.

Apr 2 •

March 2025

Taking a Little Break (For Good Reasons!)

Prioritizing some professional commitments

Mar 3 •

February 2025

The "Best Self" Conundrum (Part 2)

Seeing ourselves through eyes of love

Feb 19 •

The "Best Self" Conundrum (Part 1)

Shadow Work is not a one-size-fits-all process; and feeling feelings is hard.

Feb 12 •

January 2025

Navigating the Noise

The liminal spaces of allyship, accompliceship, and co-conspiratorship

Jan 29 •

We're still alive!

Hi everyone —

Jan 22 •

December 2024

Please Holiday Responsibly

Reflect, Recharge, Replenish

Dec 22, 2024 •

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