In one of my previous relationships, where I was the sub, my dom didn't share a lot with me. And I also didn't do a good job of taking her hints when she did want me to infer something. Ultimately we weren't right for each other--but it was a rewarding relationship while it lasted. However, I couldn't feel close enough or able to feel what she was feeling because of differences in how and what we were communicating.
Communication is SO important. Just because it's an authority-based relationship doesn't mean that open and transparent communication isn't still required. I'm glad that the relationship was rewarding while it lasted however!
This is excellent. Thank you. I've added it to my digital library of articles I send people when asking about certain kink and kink scene topics.
Thanks so much! It's doubly appreciated given that I've just recently launched. But content will fill out as more weekly posts drop.
In one of my previous relationships, where I was the sub, my dom didn't share a lot with me. And I also didn't do a good job of taking her hints when she did want me to infer something. Ultimately we weren't right for each other--but it was a rewarding relationship while it lasted. However, I couldn't feel close enough or able to feel what she was feeling because of differences in how and what we were communicating.
Communication is SO important. Just because it's an authority-based relationship doesn't mean that open and transparent communication isn't still required. I'm glad that the relationship was rewarding while it lasted however!