Holding Space

On Empathy, Anger, and Forgiveness.

I’m going to make a generalization here and say that many kinksters tend to be empaths; it’s something that I discovered about myself in the past year or so, and it explains much of my kink as well as many of the issues I’ve had in both my kink and polyam relationships. Whenever a partner tended to be in some kind of funk or dealing with some heavy (and…