On Filling Your Cup

Kink isn't therapy, nor is it a panacea for fulfillment

Rest has always been a difficult thing for me. It is partially a generational thing (insert your own GenX worker memes here); it’s also due to having parents who clocked every moment I wasn’t doing something and then declaring me “lazy.” So rest, as a practice, has never been one of my strong suits. I’ve only recently learned to fully unplug from things…